We both shrieked along, me in delight, and Glo in shock, turning my living room into one big shriek-fest, at 11:30pm. When the shrieking had died down, Toke bid us farewell with a “he’s coming, gotta go, we’re about to celebrate”, and hung up. She actually said the last line #inWaconzyVoice
Almost as soon as Toke hung up, a text message came into my phone. I quickly opened it, thinking it was some follow-up gist. I was pleasantly surprised when I saw a message from Hawt Pastor, asking that I ensure I did not miss church for any reason the next day, since it had been so long ago he had seen me in church.
Once I had finished reading the sms, I turned to Gloria. “I’m listening…”
“It was like three years ago, and it wasn’t anything serious. I was in UK, and met him at a party. As you have experienced, he has a way with words and gestures. Things got crazy and it was a one night thing. I never thought I was ever going to see him again in my life, ever. There was no way I would ever have know he would end up as the love of my best friend’s life. Absolutely no way.”
I sat on the edge of the chair, as I realized the dilemma Gloria was going through.
“Please, do not tell Toke,” she begged. “She’s so happy with him and I don’t want to be the one that ruins everyone’s joy every time. Your wedding and now this…”
While what Gloria was saying made sense at a certain level, she was forgetting something.
“What if he tells her first?” I asked. “And if he met you before, why didn’t he say so? And why would he propose to her right after meeting you?” My questions came fast. “I think it would be better if she finds out from one of us than him. That’s going to look real bad and it will be more difficult to let her know it was just a foolishness of the past. She can decide if she wants to go on, knowing what she knows. He obviously hasn’t told her so she can make her decision to marry him. We need to give her the opportunity to make an informed decision. Otherwise we’ll be making the same mistake Ossy made when he didn’t give me full disclosure about Yomi’s sexuality.”